You are now in my thoughts Jerry!
I don't know how I would handle something like this if it happened to me, but I do know how I would handle it when it happens to someone else...I will help however I can!
Keep the inmates (yes, you are one too) updated here and you will have the help of 50,00 people helping you and holding you up.
Did you have an SCI also? As stupid as this sounds, don't let it get to you. Keeping a positive attitude helps in ways you don't even see yet.
Let me know if I can help somehow.