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Old 11-19-2012, 06:52 PM   #42
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Originally Posted by linkweewee View Post
The best advice I ever got when years ago I was doing shitty things to myself that noone but me knew about was from my dentist (also a friend) when he told me to "quit beating myself up" and that has stuck with me since.

Their are no trite cliches to trot out that fix things is obviously a truism too and why we're so nice to others and hard on ourselves is another conundrum.
Yup....notice my signature line, it is there for a reason: much worse than what others may say about or
towards me has been my very own harsh judgement. Or stuff like:"you can't do can't do that...blah...'s all shitty anyways...."

Took a long time to learn to just let that clutter ramble and be like:
Ja....ja....ja..... (eye rolling here) ....stop wasting my time.
What others think of me is none of my business.
What I think of me is none of my business.

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