Originally Posted by linkweewee
The best advice I ever got when years ago I was doing shitty things to myself that noone but me knew about was from my dentist (also a friend) when he told me to "quit beating myself up" and that has stuck with me since.
Their are no trite cliches to trot out that fix things is obviously a truism too and why we're so nice to others and hard on ourselves is another conundrum.
Yup....notice my signature line, it is there for a reason: much worse than what others may say about or
towards me has been my very own harsh judgement. Or stuff like:"you can't do this....you can't do that...blah...
blah...blah....it's all shitty anyways...."
Took a long time to learn to just let that clutter ramble and be like:
Ja....ja....ja..... (eye rolling here)
....stop wasting my time.