Very sorry to hear that, Jim.
As you know, when they get that big all you can do is gather up a few important things (if you have time) and RUN AWAY.
It's certain to take a while but let me know what you need. I'll be glad to do whatever I can to help out.
I know you've lots on your mind right now, but be sure to track all your expenses since you left home. Insurance guys like lots of paperwork.