So sorry to hear about this. My thoughts are with both of you. Glad to here he's doing better.
Once Alan is home and recovering feel free to PM me if you have any questions. I went through a very similar injury to my left femur 5 years ago.
Mine: 07 DL650 ABS, 99 DR350SEx, 05 Montesa 4RT Her's: 02 KL250 Super Sherpa