I (am reading between the lines) have seen these type of posts/threads in the Ozsylum a number of occassions before... and I will just say this; it has never ended well. I (once again reading between lines) think that sean-0 has been quite diplomatic in his post, not used any stereotypes or derogatory terms... which - as we have seen before - only inflame the situation... but it is my experience that if the subject is pursued here... that's where it usually ends up... in the bin or JM. I will end by saying that I genuinely feel for your situation sean-0... by the timing and content of your post; I'm pretty sure it is something weighing on your mind for a while now... and you feel the need to "vent" to some mates. understandable. Sincerely hope that the situation improves for you... I am sure it must be a great source of frustration. chin up!