I too have a stainless disc on my R45 with braided hoses and R65 brembo. It was described as a death trap by the guy who took it to its mot due to the shit brake. I too have nearly shat myself when trying to brake in general. I put EBC gg pads on and made a world of difference and use 2 fingers. I probably will go to hh anyway as they only cost 20 quid.