I have owned a DL650 for a few years now following a number of sport bikes. I mainly ride by myself however my wife has been increasingly interested in riding with me and the little 650 is just not the best handling bike with myself 190lbs wife 150lbs and a few pounds of gear for a day trip. I have always liked the idea of a GS or RT however my local BMW dealer is a real pain in the but to deal with, and doesn't even like you to test their bikes unless you are about to write a check. A few weeks back my local Harley dealer had a ride event in which Harley came with a semi truck of 2013 bikes for customers to ride. I never rode a Harley before so the wife and I attended. We drove an ultra, road king and deluxe. The wife really liked the lower seat position of the bikes and seemed to like the road king the best. I am a little unsure of the weight though. Once we got moving it was ok, however in parking lot maneuvering, all but the Deluxe felt like they where much more than the 700+ lbs that they were. Do you Harley riders ever get used to the weight of these bikes, or just learn how to manage it? Wife like the back seat but I am not sure if I want to deal with that weight on a day to day commuting. Thoughts? Thanks!!