My biggest point in explaining my experience with Kacey Smith and the Lizard Lady is to remind ourselves that we often misjudge things we dont know about and especially misjudge people we dont get a chance to know. It happens all the time especially on the Internet. Knowing is doing and doing is experience. I was wrong again to adopt a negative perception about someone with whom I had had no prior personal experience. Life is too short to place people into stigma. Everyone has something bad about them and the new media trains us to point out the bad stuff.