If the OP's information is correct, he lives very close to one of the best places to learn how to ride in the world, the Mojave desert. Get her on a dirt bike and let her learn how to ride in the "dez". There was another geezer like me who hit the nail on the head. Years and years of racing desert, MX, Baja, and yes, even road racing and I have never been taught "counter steering". You guys who place all of this weight on safety classes, magazine articles or shit you read, or watch videos of telling you how too ride, you are over thinking it to a fault. Stop trying to impress her with your esoteric knowledge. If you have to think about counter steering you are doing it wrong.