Hey Ara, I your blog post today where you talked about taking down an earlier post and people saying nasty things to you. Ignore the haters, you have a lot of friends nearby the oasis and many more here in adv and many others who only read you website blog. We are with you, friend. While no one can truly know what another is feeling, some of us have been in similar situations. I know I have. The important thing is to take care of yourself and Spirit and let the healing come naturally. We'll understand if you need some time away from here. It's okay. And it's okay to keep posting and sharing your thoughts and feelings with us. Whatever works best for you. Wishing you well.